The day you married your mate you were now part of the Brady Bunch Family. In your mind you thought     

everything would be great. During the course of your new marriage the ex became a nightmare. Your trying to be a support for hubby and ready to pull out your hair. The ex has plans to ruin your life. These plans include   withholding the children from your husband, teaching the children to treat you like dirt, stalking, child support, and more.

You start to think I didn't sign up for this. There are many step mothers facing the same problems. We all  know a step moms job is not to take over the role as the biological mother but we are now part of the family. Most of us have watched the movie Step mom with Julia Roberts and Susan Sarandon. This movie shows the dynamics of the the family unit working together after they get past the issues. Don't we all wish we had it as easy as Isabel!